Relationships can be really tough to keep going especially these days with the pandemic. Most of them fail in about three months. I am sorry to say in my experience that the reason for this is that I get bored and the magic fades for both of us.

Here is why this happens to many of us from pinkvilla.com:

The reason why the sparks no longer fly when you see each other is that you two have outgrown each other. In the beginning, it was the mystery and the excitement of intimacy and proximity that kept you going. But as you two spend more time together and tried to connect on a deeper level, you failed at forming that connection.

I can totally relate to this. I am so happy and giddy when I meet someone for the first time and I think, holy cow this may be the one. Sometimes if ends quick, well that's ok I tried. I do find I get bored if I do start dating someone for a period of time. Maybe it's me, or maybe it's just not the right gal. Being new to Lansing with the pandemic makes it tough for me to meet someone.

This why some relationships fail:

  • Lack of communication.
  • You are afraid of being vulnerable.
  • It might have been lust.
  • More attractive options lure you.

Sound familiar? What do you think? I guess to be honest they all relate to me at one time or another. I am not giving up though; my soulmate is out there and I will not stop looking. I am a hopeless romantic.

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