Keith Urban’s Quiet Reality: Missing His Kids + Finding His Footing Again [Report]

Keith Urban is navigating a new reality following his separation from Nicole Kidman — and focusing on finding balance amid change.

The Blue Ain’t Your Color singer has largely kept his private life out of the spotlight since the couple quietly ended their 19-year marriage late last year, officially finalizing their divorce on January 6, 2026.

But according to a source close to the situation, the transition hasn’t been without emotion.

“He’s hurting,” the insider told Star, adding that Urban “misses the kids terribly” and is adjusting to “the harsh reality” of time apart from his family.

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Still, those who know the country superstar best say he’s channeling that emotion into positive change.

Who Gets What

Court documents reveal that Urban and Kidman agreed to waive both child support and spousal support. They’ll each cover their own legal fees and divide assets — including bank accounts, investments, vehicles, and personal property — by mutual agreement.

Kidman will be the primary residential parent for their daughters, Sunday Rose (17) and Faith (14), having custody 306 days of the year. Urban will spend every other weekend — a total of 59 days annually — with the girls.

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While the arrangement means less time together, sources say Urban remains a devoted and present father, making his time with his daughters his top priority.

After the Split, Keith’s Way

Urban has been stepping into this new chapter with trademark heart and quiet determination.

He turned heads at the 2025 CMA Awards — not just for his performance, but for his confident, refreshed look on the red carpet.

Urban appeared noticeably leaner and more energized, reportedly dropping around 10 pounds as he refocused on health, fitness, and self-care.

“Keith has always been fit, but in the last few months he’s really trimmed up a lot,” a source said, noting that he’s working with a new team for wardrobe and grooming.

A Fresh Start + Family First

While Kidman has been spending time with their girls in Australia, Urban continues to prioritize his role as a father — and his love for family remains front and center, even as he moves forward.

After nearly two decades of marriage, this new season for Urban is one of reflection, healing, and purpose.

Though the road has been emotional, the Grammy winner seems determined to handle it with grace — proving once again that even in heartbreak, Keith Urban still leads with heart.